Changes are the most beautiful and important part of life to me. Whether its the weather, the outfit or the boyfriend things never stay the same. Jobs constantly change as well as fashion and news.Some people are afraid of change and afraid to try something new. The thing about that is if your not willing to allow changes in your life then you will go your whole life thinking what if. Change is good. It takes time and courage to decide to try something new or to decide to take your life in a different direction, but CHANGE is good! I was so scared to let go of my ex. Despite how bad he hurt me no matter how many times he cheated, i felt like i already knew him and i already invested time so why try a new guy when there is a possibility that he may do me the same way. For 3 years i was scared of change. It was an adjustment when i decided to be single. I was use to having someone with me all the time. I was use to being in love with someone. I was not use to having so much alone time. It was different but believe it or not it was the best thing i could have ever done. Taking time for me was what i had needed to do the whole time, but being afraid of change i was holding myself back. when i hear people say " i dont want to go there i never been" or " i don't want to eat that because i never ate that before", it pisses me off. How can you know how something is if you never try it. Its one thing to be afraid of new things but its another to block change. Having a bad day? Simply changing your outlook can bring about an entirely different attitude. Changing old habits actually brings along new success. Change my friends is never a bad thing. Even when changing something does not give you the results you expected it still is an experience that would have never occurred. Change is good people! Step outside your shell and be flexible to trying new things and letting go of old habits. Change may be just what your life is missing!
